For some, graduation can be bittersweet.
It’s exciting to prepare for your next adventure as a university student or perhaps as a shiny, new member of the workforce. But even an occasion as happy as graduation can be tinged with a bit of sadness as you realize you’ll be leaving some of your best friends behind.
As part of your graduation plan, how about creating a strategy for staying connected with your AACC friends, whether they’re staying here for another semester or going away to a college far from the one you chose?
1. With the help of each friend, set up a regular check-in routine. It doesn’t have to be elaborate—just a quick text or DM every few weeks can keep the connection alive. Set reminders in your phone to alert you when it’s time to send a text or make a date for lunch.
2. Embrace even small moments. Every contact doesn’t have to be an hour-long conversation, although it’s a good idea to schedule those occasionally. Even something as simple as asking how someone’s job search or college application process is going can be a meaningful exchange.
3. Make plans for in-person meet-ups. Don’t wait for a special occasion. Plan to meet for coffee, the movies, or maybe even a play or open mic night back on campus. If you have a large friend group, consider planning an annual reunion. This routine can last far after everyone has graduated and scattered across the country.
4. Keep up with social media. College can make you crazy busy, but updating socials every day or so will help your far-away friends feel like they know what’s going on with you. In return, check the socials of your friends frequently.
5. Create a group chat with each friend group. That takes very little effort, and you can post only when it’s convenient for you.